So .. Are we dating?!

The other day as I was scrolling down my newsfeed on Facebook and I came across this article on thoughtarticle.com, so you know it's legit, talking about how people date now days. Though I just made a small joke regarding where the article came from, I have to agree with it what it had to say.

People in this day and age never want to solidify anything. Girl likes guy. They have sex. And then what?! We aren't together. We aren't boyfriend and girlfriend. We are just in this limbo that has no category or title. Hello?! Nobody says, "Yeah.. I'm in a situation where I regularly see and have sex with a guy but we aren't dating" ... What is that?! Talk about a conversation starter!

But what can you do? That's what "dating" is like now days. And it goes both ways now. Girls have just as much of a right to not claim a relationship as the guy now. We have our own lives and are independent enough that we don't necessarily need someone; though it would be nice after a nine hour all-nighter flight from Sao Paulo.

Regardless, this really got me thinking. I've seen the people that have relationships after relationships, paving the path to their marriage; I even have friends that are like that. But is that really the life for everyone?! My parents were never the ones to teach me to "dream" to get married. They were very modernize in that aspect in that they thought if I could take care of myself, why get married?! As modern as that idea is, it would still be nice to have someone to come home to. To have someone wait for you and to warm the bed up for you when you come in at 6 am. But as I get older, I don't even see myself in that picture... that's kind of depressing.

It isn't as if I'm against the idea, but it just with how things are going with the new rules of dating, it hard to imagine a life with someone when they can't even agree to be boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, there are still people out there that want and love to be in a real relationship; I just haven't met them yet.

I know that one person is out there for me. I just haven't met them yet. Or maybe I have but timing was wrong. With age, I've also learned that timing is EVERYTHING. But until then, I guess I'm going to have to crawl into bed alone; which is fine since I have a very comfortable bed!

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